Bright - I know what you mean about cutting back on talking to people. After 1 year, I'm kind of in the same boat. But I find that if I tell them some of the stuff I've learned here, they are more understanding. And, your real friends are those who say something like 'I support you no matter what you decide.' Not everyone will convey that message to you, but stick with those who do. And someday maybe you can help them by listening. That is a huge positive to come out of this for me - I think I have learned to be a better friend from those who have been there for me this whole time. Keep posting. You are not alone.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
