well things have taken a nose dive recently, after returning from our family holiday I couldn't help feeling that my wife was coming up with yet more excuses for us to not discuss 'us' so I pushed her & got what I deserved I guess? with her now telling me that we should seek legal advice re separation & sit our son down to discuss our family breaking up...
In some ways I feel that I want this pain to finish but I'm dreading having that conversation with my boy, I know it's going to hit him hard & I cant bear to think of living apart from him.
I am finding it hard to summon the strength to keep fighting at the moment, how do you fight someone so determined that she doesn't want to be with me?

Last edited by chip247; 08/07/14 08:55 PM.

me 46, w 46
D22, S14
M 2, T 23
WAW 3/11
ILYBINILWY 3/14