Just reading your issue with dinner. ... stop calling her and pursuing asking when .. ETA ... all that .. just cook, if she makes it home and eats great .. if not pack that stuff up in the fridge and let her help herself if she is hungry. that would be a good 180 for you IMHO I know its hard ... I cooked for the family for years with her gone it removed that issue, I made alot of those types of mistakes early on and wished I would have found this place, the books, and all the advice 7 months ago I might be much further along than where I am now, I had windows to pull some strong positives but did not have the tool box ... you do ... USE IT
Good Luck.
Great suggestion CaliGuy. I appreciate it!
With me though, I've rarely cooked dinner for the family. I started doing so as a way to show her that I appreciate the long hours that she's working to help support the family and she shouldn't have to worry about what to eat when she comes home at night.
You're right. I should simply tell her that I'm making [whatever] tonight. If she doesn't come home in time, then she has leftovers she can take to work for lunch, etc.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
