Saving my marriage by focusing on ME (Part 2)

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Hey nit this a great idea.

Wonka, I am not so much the Gay Roommate as I feel like her brother.

I am going to start pushing my boundaries. I also will get the book Starsky recommends.

I thinks what drives me nuts is the OM is so much more controlling etc.

If ww and I are in a car and I ask her anything or I lay down a boundary, she's trapped and tells the MC I trapped her in the car.

If OM does it and she admits to MC badgers her and yells at her and tells her how to act she hates it but says it's because he loves her.

Maybe she believes abuse is love , I just don't get it...

I really will be careful about not discussing the affair, not talking to her about OM ( I may vent here a little) and just work on us.

We are even going away this weekend to move S21 home.

This morning she was talking to me about all these complex issues at work...I am sure I am the only one in this
Love triangle she can even talk to about this...