I keep seeing a post after a posting that says something along the lines of, "Your spouse is giving you a gift ... the gift of time."
I'm not sure what this means.
My wife handed me papers last week and left to live four hours away with her family, and that means that I have far less time right now, because I'm doing what she used to do for the household/kids and at her job (she worked part-time for me - I have a home-based business). I'm pressing to get things done.
Does this mean that she's giving me the space to think about our relationship during the 6 months we're required to live separately? (She won't talk to me right now.)
I know what detach and get a life mean. It's this part of the standard advice that has me confused.