Thank you KG and Busting for your kind words. Like I mentioned to Bug, the feelings are mutual. I have seen you both grow tremendously. Honestly it has been a thing of beauty, especially considering how difficult this can be.
Paul....thanks for dropping in. I will try to catch up on your sitch soon and I will try to help you if I can.
As for the new woman in my life, I feel truly blessed. I realize that we are in the "euphoric" stage, so things are going great. Of course I still have the cloud of my sitch above me. I need to get this D processed. As I just mentioned in Paul's thread, be a great dad. It is one of the things that attracted my new woman to me. Additionally, all of the changes that I made during journey are benefiting me in my new R. I have been told on several occasions that I am different. It is hard work, but beyond worthwhile.
If I do decide to keep updating, I will relocate to the proper forum.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
(((((((((((((((((LITB)))))))))))))) glad to hear that you are doing well. i find your faith and attitude inspiring. thank you for all the support and kindness.
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
(((((NG)))))!!! It has been a long time. Thank you for your kind words my sweet friend!!
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
What do I know? I thought my thread in this forum had run its course. I thought that my new path was clear. Life can certainly be interesting and surprising.
What do I know? I know that I was going to be happy no matter who was in my life or if I was flying solo. That is my responsibility.
Here is the update. My W and I have agreed to reconcile again. It wasn't any easy decision. I was very reluctant to even consider the idea. I had become the WAS. Interesting for sure, because I was very considerate of her, knowing the pain she was experiencing all too well.
Anyway, it feels different this time around. Obviously I am leaving out a ton of details that I will share another day. Just wanted to stop by to update my thread.
Keep the faith.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Wow....one of my DB heroes resurfaces! LITB - check my last thread....we are in the same place my friend...thought I have not posted a ton about it. Let's talk.....
Bug, you are absolutely right and I can really appreciate what you said on Crimson's thread about embracing uncertainty.
Crimson, I am reading your thread right now. I am happy to read the updates. Stay the course my friend.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Thanks Starsky! I know you are spot on with taking things slow and being careful. Gonna do my best. Thanks again.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
