I saw H briefly yesterday morning for a kid exchange, but otherwise I haven't seen or heard from him since I left his house on Tuesday night. I'm starting to realize how much I was mind-reading in the past and I'm really proud of myself for NOT doing so now.
Big money talk tomorrow over coffee. I admit, I'm nervous -- if H isn't reasonable, I will have to file for S because I need spousal support (and I will get it, according to my L). And honestly, if H isn't reasonable, I don't know that I will want to DB anymore because I will lose so much respect for him.
I'm thinking of doing a temp check before we start the money conversation, just to see if there's any way to avoid having to go nuclear. (H has repeatedly referred to filing for S as the "nuclear option" because he thinks it would irreparably damage our R.) Bad idea, right?
