TBoned and TL72, I too, go through periods of being positive and thinking, "I got this" and am glad the sadness and pain are behind me. Or so I thought. But then something unexpected happens, like with you being behind H's car, and WHAM, I'm two steps back. Shedding tears and licking wounds I'd thought were healing. It's less often, but still does happen.
Sorry to post this in your page, Tboned, but this struck me as being a recovery of CHOICES, mostly, and I choose to keep making myself take a positive step forward every time I have the WHAM-two-steps-back experience.
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