Thanks TL. This is the first time. I mentioned it to my therapist today. I thought she would be against it but she actually thought it was a good idea. Certainly not something to make a habit of but good for me to meet her since I gave no control over h taking my s around her.

I also went and looked at an apartment today. It planned. I drove by and went in on impulse. Very nice and very affordable. Now I need to spend a year or 2 fixing my horrible credit. Hopefully I can stay where I am for that long.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15