To top it off, it sounds like he's showing his true colors to the new wife. Apparently he made her take out her dentures in front of all her grand kids and show them what happens if you don't take care of your teeth! D11 was there along with OW's family when this happened. D11 said there was a very awkward silence after that and the only one that laughed was XH.
Granted I don't care for OW.... THAT WAS JUST DAMN RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL TO HER. According to D11 it sounded like she was uncomfortable doing it, but she did it anyway???
THAT, my friend, is just un-be-live-a-bull. He made her take out her teeth? And she DID it? WTF is wrong with these women?
I have seen glimpses of "that look" in OW. It's the look of "I can't believe you said that" or "why are you getting upset". She doesn't realize she is no different than I was in that situation. She is just different. Right now she is a glorified dog watcher and babysitter. J has already started leaving for work earlier and getting home later. I wonder if she realizes that he calls me almost every day on his way to or coming home from work? I wonder if she realizes that soon he will start to travel more and she will be left alone all day. She has no job, no friends here, and her kids are not allowed to move. She will have no money and no life. At least I never got to that point.
We are all so much better off than these pathetic Exs and OPs. It just takes a while to figure it out.
Sorry to hijack...
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
