I have very, very mixed feelings about this, because honestly - it is exactly what I have been doing for the last 9 months. Ultimately, I think I've decided that I am his wife. I have every single right to live with, sleep with, and vacation with my husband. If I can do that with no expectations right now, then fine. I have detached from him in many ways, and I have not brought up the affair in about 8 weeks.
I have seen changes in H. There have been long spells of silence. I see very little evidence of OW. But he does seem to be doing a better job of connecting at home, with his kids....
This is like trying to watch evolution - the changes come so slowly. But they come.
So - I continue to detach, work on me, pray.....
How is the MC working out? We aren't doing MC. Just IC for me. I wouldn't press the issue of MC or that particular appointment.
Is OW annoyed that her fantasy world isn't moving into reality? Crazy. :roll eyes:
