My S(almost)25 is now living in Canada with his GF whom we've met a few times and like. Don't know her well enough to love her but she loves our son. A lot. And he's headoverheels. So I'm happy for them both.
But,
It's very difficult to move into the back seat of a life you created. I'm doing it but some days it's a struggle. Right now they're making some decisions that I think aren't in his best interests long-term.
Not. My. Problem.
It's probably good that they live far away. I continue to remind myself that this is his life. We all get out time at bat.
Love and support, love and support, love and support have become my mantra with both sons.
Last edited by labug; 08/07/1402:09 PM.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
