On the subject of grateful, mentioned earlier & if you have TIME to read, search vibrantnation.com

Starting over in mid life - by TUF-E-NUF July 07, 2014
It starts this way > My husband and I met 5 years ago when we had both just come out of 15 year marriages. Both in our mid 40s. Both with nothing …..(& ends > ) How did we end up at 50 with absolutely nothing to show for it. I am just looking for anyone that might be in a similar situation. Thank you.


VERY LONG response but makes you think!
last comment is from -> grammayumyum says (there are others)
her story:
It starts > I am coming out of a brief marriage. I had been single for 13 years, and was quite content. … (& ends this way) now considered himself a spoiled brat, even in the midst of our present circumstances! :-)
God bless you. You may not feel like it, but you are already truly blessed!

Pls. advise if I have done wrong by posting this here - I read it to remind myself that I'm 'ok' (even though i don't always feel that way - i persist), thought I'd share. If 'wrong', will delete 'pronto'!!


pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017