Actually my ex regards feelings as something one should just "get over". If I am upset about something he did or said then I should just "get over it" and move on once he explains himself or comes up with an excuse why he did what he did or said what he said. He does this with everyone, not just me.

Of course if HE has his feelings hurt then it's a different story. If I (or anyone else) hurts him, intentionally or not, then it's unforgiveable.

I think it's whatever suits them at the time.

WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"