Where I find I still do it is when she triggers my concern that she may have been physical with OM.
What happens is we are having a nice conversation...
- she says something very positive " I told the MC how he would keep me for hours talking and talking and over emphasizing his point and the clock would tick tick tick, then I would drive to drop him off and he would repeat himself for another hour " " whereas you were worried about my safety, you did not want me to drive home alone late at night, he did not seem to care as long as he got his point across"
Me--- I was wondering why a dinner at a Diner took 4 hours....
" don't even go there, don't"
Me--- oh what do you think, I think you were having sex, you already told me you had no interest in any man that way right now...( passive-aggressive I assume)
" I said not to go there" ---gritting her teeth and being visibly angry...
That's the one thing I really can't shake from my brain. In any other way I have been really good. I guess I just don't want to be lied to, that's the issue...
But I am not going to even touch on the last two weeks and if she brings it up I am not going to do anymore but listen...
