K - as you know trying to reason with a MLCer is well nigh impossible. The thing with emotional abusers is to focus on their actions and your feelings.
Itis hard for kids to be direct, but actually it isn't about 'sides of stories' Yes, they love to play the victim, Love it!
So the real answer is 'the way you announced your marriage was really hurtful to me' His act, her feelings. It is hard to argue that people have no right to their feelings.
