Thank you for your reply MrBond,

I've read most of DR, although circumstances have changed so I need to re-read it with the view of separation and another person in the picture from my last read.

Me: 40 W: 40
22 Years together, 14 Married
D8 + D7
Aug 2012 - Separated
Sep / Oct - Back Together
May 2014 - WAW / Divorce Bomb / Separation
Jun/Jul - Suspected Other man / Confirmed
Now - WAW moving out