Maybell, thank you for stopping by! I'm following your sitch, too. I appreciate your wisdom and strength in all you're facing.
I totally know it's way too soon to think about piecing, I was only asking that because I was wondering if marriage, long term was supposed to be an exercise in detachment. How is that possible? Like you, I see it giving me patience with my daughter and even with myself. It makes good sense, I'm just curious about how it translates long term into a healthy, working, strong marriage. Stepping back enough to allow the other to simply be who they are is fine, I can do that but I'm really struggling to know where the line is between detaching healthily and turning off emotionally from caring. It's almost like I want to see it in action so I can execute and emulate it. You know? Wouldn't that be great? A YouTube video of a detached marriage relationship. Yeah, that'd really help me right now.
