Maybell, at this point I wouldn't have believed him, I don't think. That's a good point. I suspect I would have assumed the change of heart was because he realised he has a pretty good thing here, and there are many things that he'll need to deal with if he leaves. And, I probably would have dreaded going back to the way things were. We both need to do work, and I don't know that I would have wanted him to stay without seeing any of that work being done first, because he's been so resistant to it so far.
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014