Finding my way - part 4

[Meghan]

I'm not sure how useful this is, but I'm holding onto a bit of the anger from today.

He didn't tell me he was leaving tomorrow until late in the afternoon, which has made it more difficult to deal with some of the things that need dealing with, like joint accounts and separation agreements.

He took another 3 hour walk today - after complaining to me about how much he had to do - presumably to avoid me.

He didn't tell me he was leaving at 9:30 until not long ago, although I doubt he booked his travel so late. And he did on his way to a long bathroom break, I guess so he wouldn't see me for awhile.

This all feels immature and juvenile. I get that he's hurting too, and this is hard for him. He has things that need to be taken care of. I'm trying to be kind and compassionate while still being neutral, but I'm also annoyed and feeling frustrated with his actions.