I think I get what you are saying Meghan. That makes sense. "Moving on" just seemed like slamming the door on everything. I never thought of it in the same context as detaching. I guess looking at it like walking through the door, but leaving it open behind you might be a better way of looking at it.
Me: 28 W: 28 Together: 9.5 years Married: 4 years Bomb dropped and W moved out: 6/15/14