I agree Livenow! I can see it when she is away from him for just a few days. For now, he is blitzing her with calls and texts many times a day. Even if he were to stop treatment and go back home 1000 miles away might have at least a calming effect on her. If and when he is out of her life and she begins to really see what damage she has done, even to herself, it may be too much for her to face. She has always been a "runner". Only time will tell if she goes so far that I won't even care if she does start to come around. That will depend on how much damage she does to the girls and myself in the meantime.