Talked to W. Asked if she had questions about my position. She was nothing but sarcasm, about how sweet it was. She threw it all back at me as more of "my way or the highway"
I asked her what her position was. She didn't know. She is angry about me and past. She won't give it up.
Any time she dragged in the past, I owned it, then said let's focus on now and future.
W kept denying all A's; said she's not seeing anyone.
Asked whether I'd rescheduled MC, accused me of not doing it because I didn't want to R. I said it was a phone call away, as soon as she told me she wanted to move forward. Told her again I would rather spend money on therapy than lawyers.
Over and over, she told me how I felt, made me out to be a monster. Told me how good I had it, and how hard she tried. Again, I would pull back to present and say Yes, I own that, but what do we do now?
Anger, anger, anger.
So, I thanked her for her time, told her I had a good idea what her position was. Then I told her to take the curtains back, and not to spend any money on house.
So, it's 9 or 10 months in, and she's still in total denial.
