Wife still in MLC but has now left #2

[Shining]

I'm so sorry you are feeling so much stress, Matt. I'm still thinking and processing your sitch and I don't have the greatest, most perfect advice, other than to please try the best you can to detach as much as you can. All she does is cause stress and grief and it has to stop. You can't stop her, and she won't stop. So stop letting it in. Protect yourself. Don't read the texts. If you have to block them then do it. Dog worms are gross, but not an emergency. I really don't know anything, but I can tell from your posts that it is really getting beyond tolerable for you. Please keep moving forward, and taking care of yourself. Take focus off of her and texts and papers. They're already written. What's done is done and if it can't or won't change, then it just is. I hate those words, myself, but I had to hear them, too. My H does not want to be married to me. Dagger. None of this is what we wanted. I'm so sorry for you, but I can relate. I lost my husband, my best friend, my house, and now my job. Pretty soon, my son is leaving for the Army. Everything I knew to be true before, isn't now. And it stinks.

But I'm convinced there is more. There is a bigger picture and we get to find out what that is. That's exciting after the pain stops...or so I'm told. I'll let you know if I get there .

I feel for you, Matt. I just wanted you to know I'm reading, and thinking about you and your D14. Please sleep tonight.

Benadryl works .