Wow! First of all, thanks to all of you to respond to my thread. I did not expect such a quick response from that many users. The history is very very long, but I managed to keep it as short as possible. There were two major events; one involving family, and one between us and the family. Since I am still on "moderation" I will just share the first story.
Around two months ago we had a formal wedding (we first married around 2 years ago at the court house). We both worked pretty hard for this event (she worked harder, off course). At the rehearsal night, my wife got offended by my sister-in-law (which was part of the wedding party) because she did not acknowledge my wife when she walked into the venue the night of the rehearsal (they have been having issues since the beginning of the year, but 5 days before the wedding, they "solved" their differences...at least thats what everybody thought, including me). Since I wanted to make my wife happy, I had to compromise by telling my brother that I prefer for his wife (sister-in-law) not to be part of the wedding party anymore. This caused a negative chain reaction, because now my brother (best man) did not showed up for the wedding, as well as my aunt and uncle (they helped my SIL and W to reconcile 5 days b4 the wedding). We still had the wedding with some bitter-sweet feelings in my heart. But we still had fun.
So this was the first incident. More things happened, but it is too long to post here at once. So I will post little by little.