MM, You haven't been back since my last post. I really hope you didn't take it the wrong way as I wasn't trying to be mean or put you down or anything of the sort! I really thought out that post and I really hoped that it would help you see things the way they are. The way a person not in the middle of the pain fest you are going through can only see. Please post and let us know what you think. I really want you to make it MM, really I do. I have been so badly hurt by my soon to be ex W and I know how that feels. Let us know that you are alright!!!