I am new here but can really relate, was not till I have read so much here I realize that I was wrong about my WAW ... I was thinking it was a BiPolar thing (Her sister and mother both diagnosed) Turns out that could be in play its more about the MLC. She is not even close to the spouse I knew 2-3 years ago and this past year her actions have suprised me and her. Reading your story does help.... just knowing I am not nuts for wanting to save this marriage though I seem to be the only one, she wants out today back in tomorrow .. the mixed signals were enough to drive me nuts but the detaching seems to be helping though I fear it may be to late ... but its all I can do either way.
I hope the best for your Sitch ... and hope the fog lifts for you soon, he has no idea how lucky he is to have you in his corner ... one day we all hope our spouses might come out of this fog.
