Lisa - listen to the "Headspace on…Relationships" podcast. It's about relationships in general, not our particular situations but it helped me get in to a better mindset. https://soundcloud.com/search?q=andy%20puddicombe (look for the Relationship one from the list)
I'm using the Headspace app to meditate - loving it!
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014