So now that perhaps my moods are starting to get under control (I'll definitely give it a few more weeks to make sure), I'm wondering what my next step is.

I mean I feel like H and I could hang out in this limbo for quite a long time. I'm feeling relatively ok with that right now (see? ADs really are working) but wondering if there is something I eventually *should* do to maximize chances for R? Right now I'm just giving him space and making sure any interactions we have are pleasant. That's about it. Do I basically stay this course for as long as I can stand it?

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14