Besides, when the time is right, you could try a 30-day challenge and see if actually having sex changes your mood towards it. You may find you really don't want to do it or you may find it's just because you aren't stimulated right now.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014