More of your control. She got a raise. Be happy for her. Period. You didn't like it because she would be more independent of you and your control.
You can't seem to get rid of that.
No. I didn't like it because the person who gave her the raise is the OM.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!