Hey Cali. Don't assume what she would or wouldn't be willing to do. Look at the mountains we on this forum are willing to move to change and grow. No guarantees, but if the day comes she decides she wants to make it work to the same level you do she might be different than she is today.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15