This whole "I want to be friends but not return to the marriage" thing feels like cake-eating to me, and an effort to buy time so he can continue the playboy lifestyle.
Maybell, sometimes I read your posts and wonder if we're married to the same guy. The similarities in the sitchs are amazing.
Stick to your guns on that one. How on earth someone can think they can lie to, betray and essentially dump their S and then expect to remain friends is beyond me. When my H indicates that's what he wants (or better to say, fantasizes), it makes me wonder just how low of an opinion he has of me. And I know that however low it might be, I'm much, much stronger and smarter than he's giving me credit for. And so are you.
I'm sending hugs .... stay strong.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
