Right now, I'm just shaking my head. He sent me flowers a couple of days ago, has been texting "good mornings" to me and told me today on the phone that he didn't want to live where he is right now and wanted to move back home and create a "new normal" for us. He said he didn't like this "normal." I just said I didn't like this normal either and left it at that. To be honest, I just didn't know what to say.
As you can probably guess, I'm more than skeptical and will not repeat that pattern that 25 pointed out and fall for this stuff again. I've reached the point of "put up or shut up." I've pretty much avoided talking to him about anything but business and don't initiate any contact with him. The "normal" talk was instigated by him and I was totally thrown by it. It is really sad when the first thing that goes through your mind is "what's he up to now?"
But enough of that. My son and his family will be visiting for the weekend. I'm really looking forward to a lot of hugs from the grandkids! So, I'm in store for a hectic weekend, but a fun kind of hectic.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013