Kids and I got home from vacation late last night.
Kids and I had a great time, they were already talking about things to do next year. I'm so glad we went. Not once did they mention missing mom. It just did our relationships with each other a lot of good.
W was already asleep with sleeping pill, so never heard us unloading everything. I have no idea where W's head is.
She has just been without her kids for 2 and a half weeks for the first time ever.
There are no phone/text logs for OM for last 12 days.
She had an old friend of ours, (married woman), come and stay the weekend with her.
I was hoping there was an off chance there that she was clearing her head.
Unfortunately I see a couple of very long calls to a new guy - she's known him for a while, but of course, everything looks suspicious to me.
W came down this morning just before I left, said hello and asked how I liked the new curtains she put up in the family room. This is the first we've spoken since the cell phone email exchange. I had to leave for work.
New curtains? What is she thinking? I'm prepared to file for D and put the house up for sale, and she's buying curtains? Just more "cheer-me-up" shopping?
So in the letter I left her before vacation, I said we each had some big decisions to make, and I asked her to share her thoughts. Tonight, I'm going to ask her for those thoughts. I don't plan on saying a thing, just listening. Then I'll tell her that I'll have to think about that.
