H. is out this morning finding boxes so he can pack. I know this is happening, but moments like that when he announces things throw me for big loops.
I called my dad this morning. I then called a lawyer. I've been encouraged by a number of people to create a separation agreement to protect myself, and to do so fairly quickly. This doesn't preclude reconciliation and it helps to protect my assets. H. has already said we should just keep our own assets, so I'm hoping that this goes easily, but I guess that we'll see. It feels like another nail in the coffin, though.
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014
