I hope for the best for my M and R. I have changed for the better. I know I will be great with either outcome. I know my time of "standing" is coming close to an end. The ball is in my H court, depends on how he plays it now, and he will need to show me very soon the direction he is planning to take. H has not been in control of me, H has been in control of our M, but not me. I have allowed this to go on and I will know when enough is enough for me. I have given H he space, given him time to sort thru his feelings/thoughts not a full year but few months. I have a plan in my mind to continue standing thru end of year, waiting and praying for signs that my H is ready to return full to M or NOT.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
