Welp, already heard from H today! More testing waters I believe.
He texted: The house is officially pulled off the market from (realtor). My phone is ringing off the hook with realtors wanting to list the house. I don't know how they all got my personal cell number. Also sorry about the hug if it got carried away
I just went with his mood, hmmmm, idk. That's weird about your cell number. No worries about the hug on my end. I enjoyed it and was equally carried away.
Then dropped that issue, and went to more business talk. This is a consistent comfort zone for H.
My number must be public somewhere. I don't like that tho
Me: I wonder if the original listing agreement is available to realtors? Just trying to think where they got it... I'm guessing there is software that alerts sales teams when a house is pulled but not sold.
Ok, here I winced because I realized after I sent that it was probably too much...
H: They know it was pulled and not sold. But... My number ?
Me: Yeah that would weird me out for sure
Just tried to end it by validating his feeling.
Journaling mostly. I love the input and advice everyone here has so generously offered. Even if it isn't something I use in my sitch, the different perspectives are so helpful in deciding what to do, good, bad, right or wrong.
That's all for now...I have a job to find!!!
Heigh ho, heigh ho......!!!
M44, H44, both M before M4 yrs, T6 BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me H att suicide 2/14 S 4/14 OW disc 5/14 D final 4/15