Slooooooow, you can't force anyone else's process and it sounds like he may be doing some of that work. You're looking at his life through your lens, he may appear happy but appearances can be deceiving. After all he appeared happy in the M toward the end and wasn't.
Your H has the Amurrican Dream and can't figure out why he's unhappy. Leave him to his stuff.
Look how long it's taken you to get to where you are.
"I wonder what will happen?" I like that, cheer him on from afar.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
