mlc rut

[pbetra]

Matt,

Just read your reply. You see I've been spending more time at 'your place'! hehe Ahem, I mean THREAD! It's THREAD everyone!!! Thanks for this - what 'a trip' we're all making!!

re: your reply -
I called my L and he will have to file with the court to stop her. My W says that since her name is still on the deed that it's her house too and she can come and go as she pleases! Wrong! This is no longer HER home. She knows better than this and did this on purpose knowing I would be at work.

I posted on your thread - also re: your 'self care'. I know how I feel when the emotion wells up inside! Detaching is great but it's the history w/MLCer that we're also up against as we continue w/detaching!

I really don't get the sense of entitlement that the MLC has. If I were to go into her home she would have a fit (I'm not on the lease but even if I were I wouldn't do something that obviously wrong). Now I'm going to have my L get the safe and it's contents back from her and it will cost her a lot of money to have her L answer. I don't know who she is anymore. The lying has gotten worse, the manipulation of me and my D14 is getting worse and worse every day. She has lost all morals.

This is the million $$ question - the entitlement! The right to do whatever, have whatever regardless of what happens or who gets hurt! I think you're right, H probably wanted me to hear. He's discreet re: certain calls! VERY quiet & inaudible. It's so tragic the extent to which we are hurt & for what? I don't think I was that awful!! But you know what they say - that "the road to hell is paved with good intentions."

Well I say, ENOUGH LBS CASUALITIES!

I am re-writing ... : I will have good intentions to a point/to an extent, so that the road to hell will be paved for the (deserving) MLCer as... a consequence for 'bad behaviour'