25 - Regarding the previous question about the LRT -- I reviewed the section in the DR book again last night. The heading is "REREAD THE LAST-RESORT TECHNIQUE" which immediately follows the section titled "WHEN S/HE WON'T END THE AFFAIR". This in on pages 215-217.
Perhaps I'm misinterpreting, but it seems to me that MWD is clearly suggesting to follow the LRT under this particular situation.
My DB coach said a little bit of pursuit in the right circumstances (i.e. after consecutive "good days") is OK as long as I'm careful and very mindful of her reactions. The LRT specifically says to avoid pursuit. So this is where my approach differs from a "pure" LRT.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
