Congrats Shining! You handled that so very well! I've read some other places about how, if you want to get the WAS back, you should "date". Not go out and fool around or get heavily involved, but spend time with other people of the opposite sex. I couldn't do that as my values just wouldn't allow me to do that. Something about them thinking that maybe they can lose you after all. I always discounted this but here just the thought that you might have been dating and he does this. Hope it opened his eyes to what he has!
