You are so much more in control than I am! We (H and I) have the same problem of not seeing ourselves as individuals, and I am having a hard time doing it still... and also accepting that he might stick with his idea that M is not what he wants. Well, he has only told me that 50 million times but I still can't accept it. I'm admiring you!
Me: 34 H: 30 M: 4 years BD: 6/15/14 He moved out 6/30/14 OW1: EA then PA after BD Now he's dating multiple OWs I'm over it and moving on.
