It seems every time I start to get over the last crap my W pulled, she pulls something new out of her bag of tricks! ....
This is my concern re: you Matt. In sitch(s) like this, you barely have time to emotionally recover from 'toxic event 1' & before 'toxic event 2' is thrown at you. Taking some kind of break to give the anger expression will help YOU, otherwise she's indirectly giving you more 'cortisol shots' than you need! I try to remember that for myself as well (esp. w/ob. language & its effect on me as in my post)... it's difficult because MLCer is part of our history, & it takes TIME to purge them out, but I'm trying - soem days better, other days not. Your W should have taken the broom (!!) from yor home - it's the only 'accessory' that makes sense. Take care of you
I can't believe how I feel about my W now. I can honestly say I hate the person she has become. And I don't hate many people in this world!... It's been a rough few weeks!
I surprised myself at one point too - I felt the same way!!?? Couldn't believe that I was trying to save (!) the marriage that week. The hate is from the deep hurt they are causing us & the love we still have 'somewhere' for them. Keep on the road you're on esp. legal & stay away from her. Her crazy mind can hurt you (as you know!!!) on a number of DIFFERENT levels because she coming at you from MANY different, crazy, points in that illogical, senseless mind of hers!!! p.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
I try to remember that for myself as well (esp. w/ob. language & its effect on me as in my post)... it's difficult because MLCer is 
