Hi ganb8te! Thanks for checking in on my situation, I've finally found your thread and yeah we have a lot in common. (unfortunately!)

My H too asked to meet up (after a few weeks of separation) and all I could think was that he wanted to tell me something bad. Turns out I was wrong, but it could have been that way for sure! He did say some things I didn't like, but that wasn't his reason for meeting. I think he simply missed me and was curious about what I was up to.

The advice I got from Ben2010 was great. Just go into it with a positive attitude. Definitely prepare yourself for bad news as well, with a plan for what to do/say if it turns the wrong way. But otherwise plan to have a nice time, look good and enjoy talking with your H.

It sounds to me like you are doing great, being very strong and taking control of your life. Keep us posted on what happens!!!

Hugs, Lisa

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.