Hi Meghan, it's so hard! But I would say GAL as much as possible so he can sense that when he goes you will be moving on and doing ok. Maybe he will think about that when he finally feels "free" and will really start wondering what you are up to and if he made a mistake. How do you do that while feeling horrible and sad? I guess try to be around him as little as possible and when you are just put on a smile and don't say too much. So hard! I know, I was in the same exact position. I couldn't always do it but I tried my best to hold it together and seem ok.

Good luck! Hugs, LisaB


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.