Lol! I know he missed the dog. I get that, totally! I have never been unaccommodating when it comes to him spending time with her- ever! (Although he showed no interest for 4 months).
I have been sure not to be here for 3 nights because I don't want to see HIM! I will make sure I am not here tomorrow, either. I do.not.want.to.see.him.
This is new for him- why can't he get his freaking act together? It's a 10 minute process, I'm sure it's not the actual act of dropping her off that's the issue. So what is this?
It's the uncertainty that's killing me. What is he up to? He IS Nutso, but this is a new level of Nutso that I haven't seen before and it needs to go away (after he drops off my dog and gives me my money!!!!). Then he can truly disappear.
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Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
Mine couldn't even text, I can't help you in an emergency when I contacted! Meh, I did get out of the ditch, literally, but I didn't get abused which was nice.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I dont know why I'm so angry about it!!! I had such a great PMA this past weekend all the way up until this evening. And then, WHAMMO!
Shining, it's all 4 of those rolled in to 1. He has "promised" to come over and do a million things since he left and hasn't done a single thing, and he clearly is incapable of doing anything for anyone else but himself right now. Gross.
I think it's bothering me so much because it's out of my control, and he's using it to control me. Ugh!!!
I also think he realizes after he gives me back the dog and then gives me the money, I really have no use for him until February or so when he gives me the rest of the money. Maybe that's playing a role here.
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
Ggrass- I can't do the stuff myself (it's all rather heavy remodeling stuff), nor can I hire it out-- I have barely enough to live on until I graduate.
I have never asked him about the projects around the house- he brings it up, promises to get it done and then forgets about it. It just makes him seem more pathetic to me.
I'll take care of it myself when I get a full time job again, but until then he just needs to STFU about it!
Sorry- in angry mode.
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
The local emergency group do train their staff how to use chainsaws. I'm going to offer them to come cut fire wood on. My place. Win for me as no $ changes hands.
There must be a way to get it done free? You just haven't found it. Maybe colleges or students want some blank canvas to practice on.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Oh, boy... I can relate. It is frustrating. I will be up on the roof soon fixing the shingles that blew off on our NEW addition. I have to protect the totally unfinished room it is covering. I think the most difficult part will be carrying the shingles onto the roof. But... I was told the same thing.... "Oh, I'll take care of it." NOT!
Artsy, buckle up, baby. That's probably the most frustrating part: when you have some really good days and you know you are making strides, then BAM, what the heck happened? Wow! Bravo has nothing on us! I could be making lots of cash to get these renos done if I have reality tv cameras following me around. You couldn't write this script.... well maybe everyone here could?!
Is the dog back? I would just say something like "H, d is ready for z dog to come home. Please drop her off tomorrow. Thanks"
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
