Okay - I've got to be proactive in this mess - have started an online dating profile - asked for EE support to refine this - asked for advice from EE companions to get through this - started looking for new digs on the web (a pain in Stockholm) - I need to stay close enough to d16 to maintain a relationship - wonder how big the apartment she and W are taking is, as this determines whether they will leave stuff here and when we can sell the house. What is the time scale of finding a new place? Also,
OMG just ASK THEM ^^^ so you know....geez.... I think it makes sense to dedicate a coaching session to coparenting and dealing with my changed situation. clearly YES
Slept 2-3 hours last night, hopefully tonight will be better.
It is hard to hide my pain and sadness from d16, but I must.
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why not tell her how you feel without making HER responsible for it?
Like telling her that :"Time with you means so much to me --- I want US to schedule it now and see how we can fit in your activities with OUR dad & daughter time"or words to that effect.
And Luke, ASSUME she wants time with you. Do NOT ask her if...
Okay I have to keep reading your thread but so many of your posts scream out to me...Luke, you can do this!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
