Advice needed, and appreciated:

H picked up one of the dogs last Sunday- supposedly for a week. He was supposed to drop her back on Sunday. He put effort in to figuring out a good time to do so, and then asked to keep her another day. Ok. No problem.

Then yesterday he asked when would be a good time, we figured it out and he asked to change it to today. Ok...

So then today he asked, once again, to keep her another day because his plans changed. Now I'm pi$$ed.

Give me back my dog. And give me the money you owe me. He's clearly stalling for SOME reason. What is this?

I am getting extremely angry. I have been MORE than accommodating, patient and loving for over a year. I'm tired of it. I'm done with it.

I told him my D12 wants the dog back. I felt that was better than saying I did, so maybe he can see there are other people involved besides just him- yes, THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE ON THIS PLANET BESIDES YOU, H!!!!!!!!

His reply: OK

We have literally only had 1 argument this entire time (which, coincidently, had to do with the dog).

What do I do? His selfishness is throttling me into angry-mode, and that's not an easy thing to do.


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5