Hi Matt, what a coincidence! I was just checking up on you to see if any one had ideas re: your D. I suppose that you are feeling better? (Or do you still have need to go out?)
>>I just hate to put her on the spot when she has the key and her mom wants to come in my house. It will have to be done as I will not leave my D14 without a key to the ONLY HOME SHE HAS EVER KNOWN until her mother moved out a month ago.<<
This is truly rough - your D14 shouldn't be without a key. (D14 is clearly more mature than W & shouldn't be inconvenienced anyway). The more I read of this 'condition', the more I realize how crazy it is.
I don't know how to translate this sitch into a feasible solution for D14 - > Mom/W, NO entry. Maybe no answer unless you are home?
>> My W said that D doesn't hurt kids[/b], it's how the parents act. Well, so far she hasn't been acting in a way that is anything less than hurtful!<<
If this (in bold, above) wasn't so serious, it could almost be funny. They really do believe their crap! Remember to do something for yourself. You really do need a break from these unpredictable CRAZY events - a way to release when the crazy, out of control behaviour begins.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017